A police force has bee ridiculed for warning people to get consent before they ‘bump into that special someone under the mistletoe’ or else they could be committing ‘rape.’
But the force only removed the tweet after being contacted by MailOnline. In a new message, posted this morning, the PSNI wrote: “We posted a message on Twitter yesterday that some may have taken out of context but the message remains the same; when you are out socialising over the Christmas period, please remember without consent it is rape.”
The force, which has 159,000 Twitter followers, posted: “If you bump into that special someone under the mistletoe tonight, remember that without consent it is rape #SeasonsGreetings.”
@Renown_Ve commented: ‘Since when did a kiss under the mistletoe turn into rape? Get a grip, and start being thief takes again not half arsed SJWs [social justice warriors].'
@69mib wrote: ‘Bumping into someone, under the mistletoe, is now considered rape? Why do you trivialise such a serious issue with such a nonsense tweet?’
Mike love tweeted PSNI: ‘This tweet tells people that a kiss is rape.
My name is Uzochukwu, a 36-year-old married man, or I should say, one-time married man, because I have lost my wife to my younger brother who is a rich businessman based in Malaysia.
I got married to Adaeze about five years ago without a child and we had always looked up to God for a fruit of the womb but though she is now pregnant, the pregnancy does not belong to me and our family want me to keep quiet about the shameful act of my brother, Azu, because he is rich and is the one taking care of the family.
Azu had always been the black sheep in the family but all his sins were forgotten after he managed to travel out of the country to Asia and got involved in drug dealing and Internet fraud.
Suddenly, Azu became the reference point with everyone putting him as the benchmark. Even though everyone knew his money was not legal, no one cared as long as he was sending the money down.
After he came back home two years ago and built a mansion for our parents and sank some boreholes and constructed roads in our community, Azu was given a chieftaincy title and celebrated like a king.
When he came home early this year, he bought so many gifts for my wife and gave her a lot of money to set up a business. Suddenly, Adaeze began singing his praises, often making special meals for him anytime he visited.
She would cook and take to his hotel and would stay behind till late at night when he would bring her back home. I did not suspect anything untoward as I thought my own brother was just being nice to my wife.
Little did I know that he had seduced her and they were sleeping together regularly till he left and a month later, she announced that she was pregnant.
I was over the moon with the news and began preparations for the birth of our first child but my joy was shortlived when I was summoned to the village by our family elders.
When I got home, they told me that Azu had called to tell them that the pregnancy Adaeze was carrying belonged to him and that he would pay me any amount to let go of my wife for him.
I was shocked at the manner the elders told me and their insistence that I forget about my wife as Azu was ready to get married to her.
I was dumbfounded and could not say anything but when I got back to Lagos, I asked Adaeze if what they told me was the truth and she confirmed that Azu was responsible for her pregnancy.
Now, he has made plans to get her to travel to Malaysia to be with him. As we speak, she has left my house and has been staying with her sister while waiting for her papers to be ready for her to leave.
My brother even had the guts to call me to threaten me when I told him I would fight him to the last drop of my blood. He said he was willing to pay me but that he has changed his mind and I should do my worst.
I have vowed to make sure Azu, Adaeze and my family suffer for the pains they have caused me, even if it will take my life.
The heart of a man is truly and desperately wicked. I know things are happening, but this story from an Instagram user is shocking as it is true. What more can one say about a man who got a lady pregnant and then dumped her after giving birth to TWINS, saying he had a bet with his friends to get her pregnant and dump her.
I mean, how did we get here? Read the shocking story below:
I met this guy in 2013, he slid into my DM but I refused him. He was still on till 2015 June, I accepted. Then I just completed my NYSC so I was free. He asked we go together to visit him home at Accra, I did agree and we went there. It was quite nice with him but I noticed he was hot tempered but just believed he will change because I loved him. Then 6 months into the relationship he hit me twice so I gave up and wanted to leave cos I was in Accra for his birthday and it didn’t go well at all.
Just three days to when my flight was booked, I discovered I was pregnant and I told him. He seemed happy and said he is sorry and ready to settle down so three months later the introduction ceremony took place and was agreed by my family to come pay my bride price by last immediately I deliver but along the line when I was 6 months gone he was doing stuffs like I am a pest..I was so frustrated and sad that I had constant high blood pressure. Then he started dating one Ghanaian girl.
A girl I knew and she used to do my pedicure and nails and stuff…I confronted him but he lied about it. Then I knew my life was doomed. I delivered my twin kids July last year and two weeks about my delivery, he sat me down and said he can’t marry me that he is a in a relationship with the Ghana girl and I should just try to forget about him… I told my family, he denied in front of them and instead he said I don’t like his family members, that’s why he told me that.
Three months later he moved me and the kids to Benin where he rented a comfortable apartment for just 3 days. After that his phone started ringing in the morning, and I wake him up. To my surprise he slapped me and started shouting that it was a lie he had a bet on me with his friends in Ghana that I was forming innocent girl and didn’t want to f**k any guy in the area so he never loved me.
I fainted immediately and was rushed to the hospital by the driver. I woke up my whole life was turned upside down. He traveled without even seeing me. Later got a text from him that he sent 200k into my account to use for kids it’s over. When I need anything for the kids he will send. That was how I stayed in the house with the kids till the rent expired and he said he can’t pay anymore and I should get a smaller one, so I did he paid and here I am alone with my kids trying to stay strong.
Lest I forget, he slept with my maid and sister living with me lol. Well, God will give me my own husband some day I know.
Mind-blowing story, this is. Something tells me this guy is not acting normally! Has he been hypnotized or something? If you were in her shoes, what will you do? Move on like she did?
Ladies, this is all for you. FALL in LOVE with YOUR HEAD and NOT your HEART!
My name is Mimi, a 38-year-old woman. I am a single mother, not by choice or design but through circumstances beyond my control.
I have two kids out of wedlock and again, it was not by design or something I loved. I gave birth to my first daughter when I was 20. Her father was the son of our traditional ruler and his parents were against us getting married since I was not royalty.
When I was 26, I got pregnant again for a man I was in love with and who had promised to marry me. But the moment he realized I was pregnant, he denied responsibility and abandoned me.
I accepted my fate and decided to live for my children. All my life, I have slaved for them, went out of my way to make sure they do not lack anything and do not miss the love of a father.
I have gone into debts, done some things I would naturally not do just so that my children will get a good life.
But just when I thought my pains will be over, my own daughter has truncated all of that. I met Jimmy two years ago. He had just divorced his wife and we started as friends before we decided to give love a chance.
Within a short while, I fell in love with him because Jimmy proved to be the kind of man I ever wanted. I had told him from day one about my kids and when he got to meet them, they just clicked, to my delight.
He started playing the father figure they never had and for that, I was very grateful to him. He would take my son to the stadium every weekend where they played football. In the evenings, he would take all of us out to the movies or eateries where we would have fun like a normal family.
My kids too loved him and started calling him dad. His three kids also liked me and came over to my place to spend holidays while my kids also went to his place to spend some time.
Though we had not discussed marriage, we both knew we were very comfortable with each other. In fact, my son had been telling us to get married and live together and whenever he brought that up, Jimmy would tell him he was working on it.
It was in the midst of this seeming happiness that I found out that I was pregnant. When I told Jimmy, he did not seem very happy though he said he was. I called my children together and told them they would soon have a sibling and my son, especially, was delighted with the news.
But a month later, my world was shattered when I discovered that my daughter was also pregnant. I noticed that she was becoming pale, lazy, always sick in the morning and throwing up when she thought I was not looking.
I asked her when she saw her period last and she said it was two months earlier. In my panic, I took her to the hospital where tests confirmed she was two months pregnant. I almost fainted when I got the shocking news.
I asked her who got her pregnant and she told me it was my own Jimmy, a man she called daddy. She said he forced himself on her when she went to spent the last holidays with him.
I was mad and drove to his house to confront him and he confessed that he was drunk the night he raped my daughter and said he had been carrying the guilt since then.
He begged that I should forgive him and keep it a secret and that he would take her to his doctor for an abortion but I will be damned if I will allow him to get an abortion for my daughter.
I am in a very serious dilemma now. Should I allow the abortion and keep my pregnancy or even get an abortion myself as well? As for Jimmy and I, it is all over as I cannot live with the fact that he got me and my daughter pregnant at the same time.
A National Youth Service Corps member, Adannaya Chikito got the surprise of her life minutes after completing the one-year mandatory NYSC scheme as her boyfriend bent the knee and popped the question in front of many people at the camp.
In terms of natural conception, twins occur in about one out of every 89 births. In other words, it’s not everyone who wishes to have a set of twins that can get them!
While those who have twins in their families are more likely to conceive twins, experts say many of us may just maintain wishes when it comes to these rare species of humans!
However, s1x experts are assuring that there are certain positions you can assume during s1x, which can aid you in conceiving twins.
Try these styles and get back to us in nine months’ time!
• Do33y style:
Here, the woman will assume kneeling position, while the man will enter from behind.
Advantage: During s1xual 1ntercourse, the sp33rm is able to swim better and reach the cerv1x of the woman easily.
• Standing position.
This enables the man to have deep penetrat1on.
Advantage: The sp33rm can easily reach the egg.
• Missionary position.
This will help the sp33rm to reach the egg easily. And it’s regarded as the best kind of s1xual position.
SIGNS OF IMMATURITY IN MARRIAGE FOR MEN:
1. Rejecting food when there's an issue:
Mr husband, you gave your wife money for
food and after it was prepared you refused
to eat because you are angry. It's one of the greatest signs of immaturity, it's time to grow up! You should not even abandon your home for any reason. You could go somewhere when angry but ensure that you don't allow it to linger unnecessarily because that is enough for the devil to build on even though some women can be really troublesome.
2. Telling your wife severally that you are the head:
May I let you know that even when your wife disobeys/ disrespect you she still knows that you are the head. You need not shout or scream it daily. Or do we need to get you a slot on CNN? It's important for you to know when and how to be firm and put your feet down over issues, however don't become a nagging husband just to prove that you are the head.
3. Issuing threats:
beating, verbally abusing
your wife, issuing threats of divorce or
bragging about marrying another wife does
not make you a man. An EMPTY barrel makes the loudest noise. Your strength is in your ability to tame your tongue and control your fist. When she is acting her "childish woman" part, play the "matured man."
4. Reporting your wife to friends and family:
When your wife offends you, correct
and talk things through. You don't have to tell everyone about her mistakes, that will paint her black and sell her cheap such that you will not be able to redeem her back.
By the way, are you a reporter answer my question ?
5. Keeping malice:
is it not funny to know that some men keep malice? Some of them even nag, criticise, abuse and call their wives names in public. It may make you look like a "big boy" who's in control but you are not going to gain anything good from it, your home will only be a den of insults and confrontations.
6. Not helping with house chores:
I must say here that it is the sole responsibility of a woman to tend and manage a home when she chooses to be a full time house wife.
However, it's not a bad thing if a man lends a helping hand when necessary. Watching football with newspaper in your hand every evening, not caring how stressful the house chores are will only increase the pressure on your wife and if you truly care you'll help, just checking on her while busy could encourage and sooth her, this also makes you a good example to the kids especially the boys. Some men don't even say "thank You" to their wives after eating, all they do is compare her with other women. It's a shame that after having 3-4 kids some
men cannot change a simple diaper or
prepare cereal meals; a big shame.
A REAL man is a pillar of support to his wife, not a hole of depression.
A man has confessed that looking at his mother's nakedness and watching her undress made him become a chronic masturbator.
A Nigerian man, Kolawole Ladipo has shared an intriguing message to parents concerning some habits and sexual behaviours that could ruin the life of their kids.
In a recent post, he narrated how a boy became addicted to masturbation by always seeing her mother undress before him at an early age.
*FAMILY PORNOGRAPHY DESTROYS KIDS*
*"MY MUM DRESSES UP BEFORE ME"!*
I counselled a young guy who was addicted to masturbation. He told me he can't do without masturbation. One thing that struck me in his confession was when he said: ''My mum caused all this for me''.
Curiosity got hold of me and I asked him, how?
He said: "I started masturbation since when I was 4 years old; my mum has always been dressing up naked before me, I am used to seeing her nakedness. I am not moved to have sex with her, but I always long to see mature ladies naked just the way I always see my mum dressing up naked before me."
I still remember seeing her nakedness regularly till I was 8 years; and my dad do shout on her:
Send this boy out before you dress,' but my mum would always reply by saying: 'Will my son sleep with me? Stop planting evil thought in his heart.'
"Anytime I see my mum's naked body, I long to see ladies' naked body.
I then went into sex at age 10 and till now I am not free from sex, heavy pornography and masturbation...''
Dear parents, I hope you are not guilty of this? You are dressing up before your 2 years old son/daughter; you say he/she doesn't know anything yet? That's very cruel.
Some couples will be having s*x while their close-to-2-years old child will be in their room with them; they'll feel and think that he/she can only see, he/she can't understand.
Sir/ma'am, that your child does not need to understand. Seeing your nakedness or seeing you and your spouse making love is enough to plant abnormal sexual fantasies and urge in that child. Remember, it is now a jet world!
How will you destroy your own children with your own carelessness?
Don't let your children see your nakedness.
Don't make love in the presence of your child no matter the age.
The scene sticks to the memory, they may want to explore and experiment what they are seeing.
Stop making free home-made 'sex clips or video' for your children to watch.
Mummy, sit properly.
Dress properly too.
Stop sitting as if you are in the labour room; parting your legs for your son to see your inner tight and pant.
Be very careful!
Daddy, don't wear ordinary boxer at home, you sit down, your 'thing' is dangling and your daughter is seeing it. There are things you should not wear beyond your bedroom, just for your spouse. Don't say because you want to enjoy your freedom in your house. It's not your house alone, it's a family house/home. You are putting your children into sexual bondage through these acts. The initiation starts from home.
Mummy, wearing ordinary bra around the house in the presence of your sons is dangerous. Yes, they won't lust after you, but you might be messing up with their sensuality; and increasing their curiosity to see the breasts of ladies out there.
Let's stop being 'pornographic materials' to our children. Raising sexually pure children, it begins at home.' It begins with me and you.
Thank you very much for the issues raised in family porn. It is still our responsibility to build virtue into our family. We need to learn from others.
Still on building virtuous homes. Look at this:
*HABITS THAT SHOW IMPROPER UPBRINGING IN CHILDREN*
Please, carefully look into the list below to see where you may want to make amends on yourself or the young ones you are caring for.
Children, if not properly groomed may never get to the top in life, even if the parents are at the top of their career.
Manners take you to where your education can't take you, irrespective of your status, money or the "who you know" factor.
This is not meant to hurt anyone or pinpoint on someone for their upbringing. Its a general message targeted to all the parents of today.
*1.* Going to your child's school dressed indecently? Think again.
*2.* Speaking rashly to your child's teacher.
*3.* Cursing, using foul words or swearing in front of your children.
*4.* Using makeup on children.
*5.* Dressing with tight clothes and indecently for children (they loose the sense of their princesshood and may not listen to you in future)
*7.* Your child holds the cup or glassware by the brim and you don't make a correction.
*8.* Your children don't greet and you just feel they will come around one day because they have a mood swing. (You will be blamed for it)
*9.* Your children eat with their mouth opened and you feel they will grow up some day.
*10.* Your children brought home something you did not buy for them and you said nothing. (That is the beginning of stealing)
*11.* They talked back at you and you concluded it's okay since you're a 21st century mummy. (You will hate yourself if they do that outside and they are disciplined)
*12.* They interrupt when you are speaking with another adult and you think they are bold and clever. (It's really bad manners)
*13.* They exercise authority over their nanny and domestic staff and you let them be. (That is bad parenting)
*14.* They say things like "my driver is on his way..."
I am not an advocate that children should call your domestic staff aunty or brother but, calling them by names when they are not young people is not poise either. The use of Miss, Mr or Mrs will look good on them.
*15.* Your children don't say- 'Thank you' when they have been helped or served something. They don't know how to say "please" when they need someone for help; and you are cool with that. (Bad parenting)
*16.* When your children cannot stand children who are less privileged.
*18.* When they pick their nose with their hands.
*19.* When they don't wash their hands after visiting the washroom.
*20.* When your children take something from the fridge without taking permission. (Bad parenting)
*21.* When your children don't knock on closed doors.
*22.* When your children don't collect from your hands the stuff you brought in as you walk in through the door.
*23.* When your children request for a bribe to carry out their home chores or extra task. (That is disgraceful)
*24.* When your children act like their grandparents are irritating them.
*25.* When your children have not learnt to get up from the chair for the elderly or visitors to sit.
*26.* When your child tells a lot of lies. (You will both cry in the future if such is not put to check)
*27.* When your child asks "who is that?" at a knock on your door instead of "please, who is there."
*28.* When your child is always seated by your visitors when being served drinks etc.
*29.* When your children still point their fingers at other people.
*30.* When your children play and jump around when prayers are going on. (age 4 above).
Don't be a 21st Century parent who cannot correct a child. Train your child in the way of the Lord, so that when he grows up he will not depart from it.
IT IS BETTER TO LET YOUR CHILDREN CRY AT AN EARLY AGE WHEN YOU CORRECT THEM, IF NOT YOU WILL BOTH CRY AT NIGHT WHEN THEY BRING DISGRACE TO THE FAMILY WITH BAD AND TERRIBLE BEHAVIOURS
May Almighty God never let this be our portion..in Jesus mighty name!!
GIRLS/LADIES/WOMEN PLEASE BE WARNED!!!
Please pay close attention to what you are about to read.
The use of 'ROHYPNOL' to commit crime: -
A woman was taken by 5 men, who according to hospital and police report was raped by a gang before being dumped at a bus
Though she was unable to remember the events of the previous evening, tests conducted revealed that she had been raped repeatedly.
There was a trace of Rohypnol in her blood.
Rohypnol, is presently being used as a date rape drug.
It is actually a small sterilization pill which is now being used by rapists to drug their targets at parties.
The drug makes the mind of the target (would be victim) go blank so that she does not remember anything that transpired and worse still, the drug sterilizes the victim so that she doesn't conceive from the rape and the rapist need not worry about having his identity revealed later by a paternity test.
The real bad news is that the drug's side effects ARE NOT TEMPORARY, they are
Any female that takes it WILL NEVER BE ABLE TO CONCEIVE.
The drug is
administered by dropping it into the target's drink.
The girl wouldn't remember a thing the next morning, nothing at all that had taken place the night before will she remember.
Rohypnol, dissolves rapidly and easily in drinks, leaving no taste and no change in color which makes it impossible to detect.
These weasels can get this drug from anyone who is in the vet school or any medical university.
It's that easy and Rohypnol is about to break out big on campuses everywhere.
Believe it or not, there are even sites on the internet telling people how to use it.
Please forward this to everyone you know, especially girls.
Girls, please be careful when you're out, especially on a date, don't leave your drink unattended.
(Buy your own drinks, ensure bottles or cans received are unopened or sealed; don't even taste someone else's drink).
There has already been a report in Nigeria of girls' drinks being spiked by Rohypnol.
For guys - Please inform all your female family members, relatives and friends.
Remember you also have sisters or might one day have a daughter(s).
Important News are meant to be passed on, please don't keep or ignore.
This was sent to me and I feel I should pass it on so that together we can save lives
Please share to protect and save lives especially d life of our young reigning flexing effizy & whats-up girls!!!
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